Communicating with your partner is vital for the relationship to work and move forward, and it is necessary that you express what you want and also listen to your partner's point of view, without reaching the fight or confrontation , since this is key for communication works well and your marriage is long lasting.
If you have an impulsive nature, stop for a few seconds before getting upset and think carefully about what you are going to say to avoid verbally attacking your partner
It is very likely that the mere fact of “counting to 10” and stopping to reflect for a few moments will help you relax and think well what you want to say.
If, on the other hand, you tend to stay quiet, make an effort and talk about what you feel, so as not to fall into the role of submissive victim.
Start talking even if you are not very clear about what you are going to express and start introducing phrases that interrupt the other's monologue. You will soon find yourself expressing and defending your opinions. Remember: without yelling.
Sometimes pride makes it hard for us to admit mistakes or apologize for what put aside the ego and be understanding with your partner to reach an agreement.
Use your sense of humor and imagination, it is often the best way to make peace with your partner. Try to laugh and do not dramatize the situations.
If either of you goes to work in a bad mood or a heart ache from a "morning" argument, which must be avoided at all costs because they tend to cast their shadow throughout the day, prevent the reunion in the afternoon from returning. to be conflict.
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