There is a great physical attraction, he is the fun and popular boy from the university or simply the man of your dreams. The physical chemistry of both was such that from the day they met they said goodbye with a passionate kiss followed by a, I'll call you to see us during the week !!
Surely you went home thinking that he would look for you to go out to dinner and talk about what you like or about your future plans ... But the reality is that all week he sent you messages to tell you how beautiful and funny you are and that he would like you to see each other for the party next weekend. Of course you accept the invitation and of course, they dance, laugh, have fun and kisses and caresses are also part of this fun.
Apparently they have a lot of fun at parties and meetings with friends, but you are looking for moments alone to talk and see if in addition to the physical attraction there is the possibility of starting a formal relationship, so you decide to send them messages at night because it is time calmer of the day to talk, but you realize that he is not really interested in how the day was or if you feel sad about something, because all he asks is photos of you modeling your pajamas ... You agree to his game then you think you have a chance to be more than just her friend with rights.
In general, these types of relationships evolve, turning a friendship into a great friendship and now he is the one who tells you about the problems he had at the office, or how stressed he is from final exams. You usually tell him about your plans, you think about him when you go shopping, and you even choose what to buy thinking about what he might like. The problem is when you see her profile picture of a girl hugging her and you ask her, who is the one in the photo? is forgotten.
When you start a relationship with the characteristics of the previous story, it is very likely that you will not reach more, because in general men are hunters and when you give a hunting animal the meat without difficulty, it will know that it can always obtain it easily. If you try to show him that the game changed by behaving cold and distant, you do not agree to his invitations to go out and you do not answer his messages, it is most likely that he will become infatuated with you and that relationship will turn into a nightmare. It is important not to confuse caprice with love and desire with love, it is very likely that you feel that your friend with rights is getting out of hand and men this is not something they like, so you will be able to so long as I continue to have you as before.
The best thing in these cases is to speak bluntly and tell him that you are not interested in continuing to be a friend with rights because what you expected was to be more than friends ... You must terminate that relationship so that both are understood and you can start a relationship true with a guy who is actually emotionally committed to you.
So that this does not happen again, it is very important to follow these simple points:
* Give yourself to wish (without falling into arrogance)
* Don't always be available
* Get to know him well before taking the second step
* Never do things you don't want to do just to please him
* Don't try to pretend to be who you are not just by looking funny
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